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Welcome to Paradise . . .

Even with the pandemic still in full swing, we embarked on a family vacation to the west coast of Mexico for the Christmas holidays. When we decided on this vacation, the pandemic was sort of getting in control, people getting vaccinated (some with hesitation). But, the omicron variant was coming upon us everywhere. We, continued to go on vacation, with my family (and soon to be fiancΓ© and his son). This picture was the door to the villa that was our home away from home. As soon as that door opened, our jaws dropped, like I can live with this. . . AHHHHH . . . ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL (the pictures are great but don’t do justice for the in person feel and energy. Despite the high air fare we endured coming down here (oops, we made have procrastinated on getting flights early, our own fault, but at least we flew in comfort .. first class for most of flight down).

Walking through these doors at Jardin del Mar, (outside Bucerias) was ALL worth it! And what a fabulous week we had! Which ended with a perfect proposal just after countdown to midnight with fireworks all around the ocean. My amazing boyfriend, partner for rest of my life, got down on one knee and proposed! Of course, I had happy tears and glowing shaking my head YES YES YES!!! Of course, I want to spend the rest of my life with you, someone who treats me so amazing, and I am so comfortable with . . . just being myself! LIFE IS SO GOOD!

I have been on cloud nine since the first date with him!

living in paradise. pinch me
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I am who I am . . .

As you read in the previous sections above. . . I was on a self journey, discovering who I am, reconnecting with good friends and family, letting go of negative energy, and finding what I like and dislike. This picture was taken last week at the annual shrewsbury town hall where children of all ages participate in an art exhibit in October (theme halloween, of course). Each year, there are different exhibits, and must I say very talented young minds. This one, just the way I captured in this photo spoke to me. When I got home, and saw this particular pose (still practicing my camera angles, and more) I was like this is a reflection of me, where I am today. I have become a strong and independent woman. I am able to stand tall, and put my head up and not live with fear of being ridiculed. I live for love, not fear . . . anymore. I am me! I am in a very awesome relationship since 2018. I found what true love really is, and that you can be with someone that is totally honest and you can be comfortable with telling them anything and everything. At age 50, I found what a true, honest relationship can be. Life is so good.

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I am who I am . . .

As you read in the previous sections above. . . I was on a self journey, discovering who I am, reconnecting with good friends and family, letting go of negative energy, and finding what I like and dislike. This picture was taken last week at the annual shrewsbury town hall where children of all ages participate in an art exhibit in October (theme halloween, of course). Each year, there are different exhibits, and must I say very talented young minds. This one, just the way I captured in this photo spoke to me. When I got home, and saw this particular pose (still practicing my camera angles, and more) I was like this is a reflection of me, where I am today. I have become a strong and independent woman. I am able to stand tall, and put my head up and not leave with fear of being ridiculed. I live for love, not fear . . . anymore. I am me! I am in a very awesome relationship since 2018. I found what true love really is, and that you can be with someone that is totally honest and you can be comfortable with telling them anything and everything. At age 50, I found what a true, honest relationship can be. Life is so good.

If you had to give one life changing tip, what would it be?

NEVER GIVE UP

A life lesson I learned to cope with day to day life. I am a true living Cinderella, finally found peace. Had to love myself first. Four agreements became my mantra:

  1. Be impeccable with your word
  2. Don’t take anything personally
  3. Don’t make assumptions
  4. Always do your best (well, mom always said JUST try your best, is all you can do)

I added find humor in every day. Laughter indeed is the

The art of puree (with food)

When you must subdue to a Puree diet, why does everything you eat have to look the same? Especially if your caretaker does NOT tell you what you are eating. Is it a tuna sandwich, oatmeal, pancakes, pizza, or whatever. That would be horrible to the palate. Its like when you take a bite of an oatmeal raisin cookie and think its chocolate chip; so discouraging. Totally messes with your palette and trust.

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I was a caretaker for developmentally disabled adults for over 37 years. I have worked with many that had to subdue to a puree diet. Let me tell you, we had challenges. I had a woman (rest her soul) she had a very hard time going from regular to puree. She was the sweet church lady, but when she started on puree; she became the italian hit lady. “I’m not eating that baby food.” As she threw her spoon across the table.

I decided to make puree an art form. Isn’t cooking an art. When you go to a fancy restaurant and they come over with this gorgeous appetizer, entree, and dessert. It just looks too perfect to dive in. And when you do dive in, OH MY GOSH!! Is it scrumptious!!!

THe above picture was during covid. We had to keep each resident in group home in their bedrooms. I started calling it “room service.” (I even got a few bells) This plate was a build your own pancakes (like IHOP has). Plate has pureed pancake. The small bowls have puree strawberry, blueberry, and of course whipped cream (whipped cream does not have to be puree. You can do mix it up, with whatever toppings individual likes.

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Once they came out with chargeable (usb) portable blenders, OH YEAH, the world was wide open. Options galore! Don’t get me wrong, when I first started in the human services field, we had blenders with plugs. That didn’t stop me from bringing some residents needed puree out to eat to restaurants and festivals. Festivals are challenging, try finding a vendor at a festival and asking “I have a strange question, do you have an outlet. I need to plug my blender in so I can puree their food.” You do get some crazy looks, like what?, but in the end, they are usually impressed.

The above picture is a blender I brought into the blueberry patch with one of my guys I took care of. Aren’t you supposed to pick and eat when fruit picking? Well, why not with someone who is puree. Just bring water (as most people do anyway) and a portable blender. Mix away. He was so appreciative and laughed that he was able to eat right in the blueberry patch. It was an awesome experience.

The following are pictures of actually meals I prepared for my latest resident. He actually ate better with my art of puree. He got a kick out of his meals. He was also diabetic, which adds its own challenge, but just a matter of making sure he has enough carbs.

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Typical american meal: as requested Hot dogs, baked beans, and brown bread from a can. If you haven’t tried brown bread in a can, you must go search. Some are plain and some have raisins. Both yum in my opinion.

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Plain donut with choc syrup (diet) on top and shaped like a donut with of course coffee to wash down. You can use cookie cutters, but puree is a little bit thinner than chocolate pudding, so when you take the cutter off, it forms a bubbly letter appearance. Divider plates work well to separate each item served. Most meals have a protein, vegetable, and starch (rice or potato). Puree each separate. You might be saying, as many of my former colleagues would, it all goes to the same place. Yes, but don’t we like to get flavors from each separate. Just because its same texture, does not mean it needs to be blended together. Plus, it gives different colors on plate.

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Puree pancake with strawberry, chocolate, and syrup

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Puree pancakes in bowl, with chocolate drizzle, and maple syrup

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Puree pancake with chocolate syrup, maple syrup, and whipped cream

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Puree pancake with maple syrup and chocolate droplets around plate.

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Puree grilled cheese and tomato soup – America comfort food. The tomato soup needed thickener added to get right consistency. (Several different types of consistencies for puree diets – nectar, thin, honey, and pudding)

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St Patrick’s Day typical boiled dinner – Corned beef, cabbage, carrots, boiled potatoes. The corned beef looks chopped, but it is actually puree just looks chunky. Some foods need extra liquids to puree.

Thank you for reading my blog post about the art of puree. Stay tuned as I have many more pictures of puree meals. I took pride in providing a fun and exciting way to enjoy eating puree food.

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REFLECTIONS (colorful)

Don’t forget to reflect on each new day. But, do not dwell on the past, move on, and live a full and bright future. Open with opportunities. Try new things.

My newest excitement is finding my niche in colorful reflections photography using assorted shapes and size bottles of all colors. Bright colors of course I do have some brown and clear bottles. I have my photo table set up by one of my windows in living room that gets quite a bit of sun each day. I keep my assorted bright colored bottles on the table at all times, and gander over periodically all day to check out reflections. And grab my camera and go to town. SNAP SNAP SNAP It’s my happy place. Finding peace and joy and happiness!

Diversity/inclusion

Looking at the distinct differences in shapes, sizes, and colors of various glass bottles. And watching the sunlight reflect through and around each one. Comparing to people – taking each individual and finding that person’s strengths and working with others to find a perfect team. Just like with these bottles (people) finding each strength to work together to develop a perfect team. Finding the right match. Including everyone’s individualism and encourage each one’s differences/strengths. And building on that. Teamwork makes the dreamwork.

Find your strength and build from that,. . .

“Build for your team, a feeling of oneness, of dependence for one another and of strength to be derived by unity.” — Vince Lombardi

Rainbow pride ❀️😍

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